NWpurselover, your Grenat is so yummy! Not stiff at all! You know with time and use paddingtons soften up significantly and I think that "warm" colors takes on another level of decadence after that phase. They become vintage looking, you know?
Triplets, between whiskey and grenat....I dunno, that's a hard choice! I will say this. I have a whiskey paddington and right now I want a grenat/rouge (very different reds, I know) Balenciaga. In regards to colors I love my whiskey. But I still have the need for a deep burgandy bag. I wonder if I had gotten the grenat paddington if I would ever have yearned for the whiskey? Probably not...but now that I have my whiskey I can't image not having her.
I think a woman should have the following colors as a staple: black, chocolate, red/burgandy and one "pop" untraditional color. My "pop" color happens to be whiskey. I know eventually I'll get all the staple colors in different models. Now it's just which one I want first!
So you know eventually you'll want both colors....you just need to decide which one should come first! If I were you I would take this Grenat because it is an 2005 at an awesome price. Nothing compares to 2005 leather!!! And the Grenat is discontinued, I believe? So there you go, a rare colored bag...and 2005 to boot!
I would just make sure the bag is in good condition before you buy.