i have the option of choosing between a fuchsia ostrich 30cm birkin with palladium hw or a raisin clemence 35cm birkin with palladium hw and i have no idea what to choose! i like the ostrich because its lightweight and exotic but i like the raisin because its more low key and its something i can use 10 years from now. i am worried about the weight of the clemence though. isnt a 35cm clemence substantially heavy? and how does the raisin look on clemence? i hear conflicting views on it! some call it gorgeous and some call it too purple! help! what are your opinions on the fuchsia ostrich? is it too flashy? im a mom of 4 (all below 9!) and aged 29. is the ostrich too old for me? i wear casual clothes all the time, not much chances of dressing up where i live. any opinions will help. thanks!