If she hurt your feelings, let her know.
Friends are neither replaceable nor disposable. Talk to her. When you tell her that she hurt your feelings, also tell her that you can tell she is unhappy.
Let her know that if she wants to talk to you about the unhappiness, you are listening, and if she doesn't, that is OK. But it is important that she talk to somebody about it.
Maybe it will turn out that she is in fact depressed, and needs treatment for it. But it might also be any number of other things that are worrying her, which could be anywhere from easily solvable by just about anybody but her, or something that she is just going to have to develop ways to manage.
For instance, if she is unhappy because she thinks her butt looks fat, that might be fixed with a simple shopping trip for new jeans.
On the other hand, if she is unhappy because a family member has serious health problems, she might just need somebody to listen, help her find a good second opinion doctor, etc etc.
The first step is for you to lead by example in the communication arena, and let her know she hurt your feelings!
Friends are neither replaceable nor disposable. Talk to her. When you tell her that she hurt your feelings, also tell her that you can tell she is unhappy.
Let her know that if she wants to talk to you about the unhappiness, you are listening, and if she doesn't, that is OK. But it is important that she talk to somebody about it.
Maybe it will turn out that she is in fact depressed, and needs treatment for it. But it might also be any number of other things that are worrying her, which could be anywhere from easily solvable by just about anybody but her, or something that she is just going to have to develop ways to manage.
For instance, if she is unhappy because she thinks her butt looks fat, that might be fixed with a simple shopping trip for new jeans.
On the other hand, if she is unhappy because a family member has serious health problems, she might just need somebody to listen, help her find a good second opinion doctor, etc etc.
The first step is for you to lead by example in the communication arena, and let her know she hurt your feelings!