My husband is in the midst of trying to surprise me with an Hermes treat...he's not very good at keeping surprises. So long story short, I have these choices. Which one is the best? Please take into consideration, I have only seen GOLD TOGO/Gold HW in person. Choices for DOGON wallet with gold hardware: 1. Noisette-Veau Rodeo.---does the grain make the color darker or lighter than say...Epsom? Color charts aren't helping me right now. 2. Chocolate-Togo.---Is this lighter or darker than Ebene? 3. Gold-Togo.---should I just go this route? I don't own any Gold. Also please add comments about the Dogon wallet itself. I need to know likes/dislikes. I've been using a Goyard wallet for the past 4 years. I'm a creature of habit...changing wallets is a big deal for me.