I have the XL Garnet that I am going to return. I took the stuffins out of it and realized it is so floppy. The handles are floppy too. Is the large one as floppy? I really like the Graphite Patent Leather large Garnet but I am afraid it will be floppy too. I didn't realize how HUGE the XL Garnet was until I took the stuffins out of it...my goodnes you could fit a baby in that bag. The chain on it is also VERY heavy with only adds to the floopy problem. I am going to take the XL back but I can't decide if I want to get the Large one or just move away from the Garnet all together.