hey there! i am 5' 2" & have the city - the proportion looks great on most body types/sizes i've seen. it fits alot & it incredibly light for a bag it's size. i have the calcaire (a pale pinky ivory) that i love love love but i do have to be careful about the handles as they do have a tendency to get dirty. i did get a handle "proctectant" that has helped alot in keeping dirt at bay. i am about to get a first for my 40th bday, so i feel your dilemma. enjoy your new bag - whichever way you go!