This statement from your seller PROVES that the seller is a scammer.If you would like to me go ahead with sending you this parcel, Ebay suggest you should close this case immediately. If not, I will have to stop the shipment and refund you. Ebay advise me to send you this email as soon as possible to have our matter settle.
Ebay would never have told the seller that you need to close the case. In fact, ebay would have advised the seller that she (seller) has lost her seller protection by not shipping the shoes within a week of payment.
And this:
First - implying that it hasn't been sent yet: If you would like to me go ahead with sending you this parcel,
Then - implying that she HAS sent and has to recall it:I will have to stop the shipment and refund you
So has she shipped or not? I vote "NO!"