Hi guys, I am currently the (very) proud owner of a beautiful Mulberry Emmy but have fallen in love with the Spy! But one of the (many) reasons I love my Mulberry so much is that it is so structured so I can always find everything in it, and it has all those handy pockets. Obviously, I do not want to spend the rest of my life with a structured bag on my elbow but do you guys think that the Spy is too slouchy? Does it swallow everything you put into it? Do any fragile bits you put in get crushed (I tend to take a water bottle with me everywhere I go so am very aware of it ruining my papers/sandwiches if I take a slouchy bag - silly I know, but thats life!) Thanks!!!!