While I don't hate SJP (but don't exactly like her either - hate is a strong word), I am glad there is someone else out there who doesn't find SATC to be all that insightful or entertaining. Little rant here for anyone else who feels the same way:
I have watched a few episodes from each season and just found the whole thing ridonculous and a little too smitten with its own cleverness when it wasn't that clever to begin with. I hate that there can't be a show about women that doesn't revolve around their relationship with the opposite sex. While I have currently been in a relationship for the past 6 years, whether in or out of that relationship, my life has never revolved around my relationship with the opposite sex any more than it has my relationship with friends and family. I just think too many female characters on TV seem to be driven solely by their relationships with the opposite sex. I am actually really glad that I gave Desperate Housewives a chance because as much as the name of the show made me think that the opposite was going to occur, the show really does focus a lot on the strength of platonic female friendships and I appreciate that. On SATC, the female friendship seemed like a means to set up relationship drama while I find DH to use the opposite approach.