I have 2 children under the age of 5. My style is pretty laid back, active but nice. I might be wearing Lululemon or Tuff Athletics black capris, a cute jacket, and tank or t, but I make sure to look relaxed but polished. Think Reese Witherspoon in terms of style. (Not looks, I wish! I am looking for a new everyday tote for the spring/summer and whatever to throw my stuff in and go. This would be a purse alternative for the day when I am on the go, with kiddos. I am looking at getting either a: 1. Longchamp Le Pliage...probably large? In Bilberry (Everyone knows what this is) or 2. Lululemon Effortless tote in black Sandra Bullock is rocking one in this pic. It has awesome reviews on the lulu site http://luluaddict.blogspot.com/2011/02/celebs-in-lululemon-sandra-bullock.html Which would you choose? TIA!