Do people like these ? Is it hard accessorizing them with scarves or charms. Are they really that comfortable. Can they fit a lot. Do they stand up on their own. So many questions ! What would be better for me to hold a lot of stuff, one of these or a mandy or gigi or large Carly.Sorry I keep asking the same questions but I thought of this one and though I would add it to the mix. I am still trying to find a tote to transition from a diaper bag. Thanks