I've already order the patent hobo but am wondering if I might like the tote better. I'm a petite lady so I'm worried about whether the hobo will look too big on me. Previously, I got the signature ergo hobo but it was so stiff it looked pretty big on me. After trying on the large patent last year, the patent seems to hang a lot better than the fabric bags. In terms of access, I can go either way with a zip top or the tote style. It seems like I better make up my mind if these pond patent items are limited. TIA!