never thought that this would be my problem but it is... my bf recently was given his grandma's engagement ring, purchased in 1917, a very nice stone, about 1.2 carats round cut. I posted a picture in an earlier thread, some of you might have seen it and remembered that I thought it was tooooo warm for my taste, especially warm against my G colored promise eternity band - which really bothers me. well I went to his house this past xmas, and his mother in her old school chinese way would hint and push that diamond onto me, saying its very very good quality and I know she loves that diamond, but to me I didnt fall in love with it. I know clarity might be kick asssss or wahtever, but its just toooooooooo yellowwwwwwwwwwww....I am torn on what to dooooo. So now, what do I do? Tell my bf to get another diamond of that size in a better color? I am afraid that I would disrespect the future in-laws. Sigh. They even went out of their way to let some jeweler look at it, some jeweler in a dept store (like Zales)...I highly don't approve of Zales or those types of stores in most malls since I saw a I1-I2 1 carat diamond selling there for $8,500-10,000+. I guess I am just venting, thanks for listening and any advice would be great.