Hi All, I need some advice. I've bought a bunch of things and have now sold a handful of things on eBay and of the few things I've sold I've had some trouble with non-paying bidders. Basically I had a skirt up for auction which ended on 4/22. I state in my auction that payment is due in 3 days. On 4/27 after many invoices with friendly notes I finally opened a dispute. After a couple of days (the 29th I think) I offered the item to the next highest bidder. Well, today is the 30th and all of a sudden I check and the second chance bidder has paid me and the first bidder has written me saying that she's had trouble with a lost debit card blah blah blah and that she'll pay me. Am I allowed to just tell the first bidder that she missed her chance? What am I required to do? Did I mess up?