Okay, I'm a little p*ssed right now, because I just bought a bag (Coach Black Signature Gallery Tote) w/ a BIN option, and the seller emails me today, without even saying 'thank you' for the purchase, and tells me she got my payment but can't ship the bag because my address is not "verified" w/ paypal (my old address is on there, I don't use paypal that often, so I forgot to change it, which I did as soon as she informed me I was unverified.) Here's the kicker though.....she has MY MONEY...it's still not refunded to my account, so she has my money, and is telling me she WILL NOT ship MY ITEM until I abide by HER TERMS.....I'm sorry, and I understand she doesn't know me and shouldn't have to trust me, but she got her payment...what is she worried about??? AND, shouldn't she have refunded me FIRST before she told me she wouldn't ship the item??? WTF??????? I think she went about it all wrong, but that's just me. And I bought a pretty pricy item (well, not so pricy, but it's not like it's $20 we're dealing w/ here.) and she is keeping my money until I abide by HER terms, while I'M the one that's paying HER? Sorry I just really needed to rant.