I'm strongly considering the Cotton club tote in black (I found one on Fashionphile and purchased it although I don't need to make my payment for a couple of days) and have been reading that it may not be a good bag to use everyday. A few members have said they don't use this bag often because they need to baby the bag. For those with the cotton club, please, please let me know if this is true. I would've thought the distressed leather would make it more durable. I've never purchased a bag for this much money and I've sold quite a few LV's and I plan to use my next purchase as my everyday bag (with 3 kids) for a very, very long time to come. Please help!