I just bought the Manhattan PM in June b/c I ed the way it looked. However I have used only a few times b/c I got a balenciaga hobo and that thing is so light I just sling it over my arm and I'm gone. So... now I am over the Mini Lin speedy and wondering if the same thing will happen to her that happened to Manhattan PM... back of the closet? It is SO pathetic to watch me try to put the Manhattan PM on my shoulder! Am just too lazy for a handheld?