I have a large Black Hamilton tote that has gotten so soft and squishy. I have a large Luggage Hamilton tote that is the same size, but she is nowhere as soft and squishy as the black one. I bought them both in March of 2012. I would like for anyone who has carried the Luggage Hamilton for a while to tell me if it softens quite a bit. I do not carry the Luggage Hamilton that much because it is not as soft as the black one. I hope this makes sense!