how do you like it? I am thinking about getting it in whiskey, but am not sure how comfy it is. I have a tourquise large ergo tote I LOVE. its very light and comfy even stuffed with all my mommy things. also I love how ali fits. CARLY I am sad to say does not fit right on my shoulder/falls off, I just cant support it I guess lol. sooo, what I am wondering is if it fits more like an ali or more like a carly? or neither!