WITHOUT a wedding band? I have a white gold setting that has pave and filigree on all three sides. Here's the link to a ring that is similar to mine: http://www.marleneharriscol.com/categories/AntiqueStyleEngagementRings/R1289.html Since it's so ornate, I never got a wedding band b/c I feared it rubbing up against my e-ring and damaging the gold and the stones. Also, nothing sits flush, and the few bands I found that sat close just overpowered my ering. Here's what troubles me a little though. Although my ring is quite ornate and looks like it should be a stand-alone piece, the band of the e-ring is quite thin, like maybe 2mm or even 1.5. I'm married now and no one asks if I'm only engaged, but I guess I'm wondering if you all saw a woman with a delicate, slender ring w/o a wedding band, would you think she wasn't married?