...and if you do, does it help?
This question might be a bit strange, but I'm honestly interested in knowing how venting helps others. I very rarely vent, and looking back to the last time I vented (at least the one I can recall, which was months ago), it, again, didn't help solve anything. ush:
I used to vent but later stopped when I realized it was not only useless (for me) but also unhealthy (again, for me) as it resulted in me dwelling on negative crap, rehashing older crap, talking about it, "feeling" about it, but not doing much about it.
Yet many people vent, which seems to indicate that somehow venting helps them cope with and/or solve their problems. Hence my question:
This question might be a bit strange, but I'm honestly interested in knowing how venting helps others. I very rarely vent, and looking back to the last time I vented (at least the one I can recall, which was months ago), it, again, didn't help solve anything. ush:
I used to vent but later stopped when I realized it was not only useless (for me) but also unhealthy (again, for me) as it resulted in me dwelling on negative crap, rehashing older crap, talking about it, "feeling" about it, but not doing much about it.
Yet many people vent, which seems to indicate that somehow venting helps them cope with and/or solve their problems. Hence my question:
- Does venting help you? How?
- Is it the "release" of emotion that helps?
- Or is it the validation and/or support you get?
- Is it the advice people give you?
- Do you think venting = complaining or is it reaching out to others?