And by that I mean either pushing him in another job, or to get a promotion, or change employer....to get something better. Bc I love my BF, he is a really great guy ! but it´s bothering me that he isn´t that ambitious. He really enjoys what he does (a different job from his education that I pushed him to get), I know it´s the most important that he likes what he does, but somehow I ´d like to feel more proud of him (inside me, not for others) ! And when he talks about his job he always underestimates it, whereas he´s very talented and smart, he needs to be more self confident......Do you believe there is any way women push their men to go for more ? or that´s just the way it is ?