i used to feel the same way.
I know for myself, I carry the LV because it is a great piece with a long history.
As for the looks and stares, it's because people are mezmirized by the gorgreous style and design.
Initially I was a bit shy to carry LV Mono, but the more I carry it the more I feel like it improves my conservative style - so the "flash" is good for me!
yea, i think some LV bags are very flashy.. like the MC speedies, I think they are kind of flashy but at the same time.. quite tacky looking (in my opinion!) perhaps cuz I have seen sooo many fake MC speedies around here.