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yes and no...
it would be really strange being friends with someone I knew slept with my man...like...i don't know...i would just be weirded out. especially when it comes to talking about intimate things, I would just feel weird that she would understand what I meant in more ways than one.
but no, because if she's a good friend and you trust her, you can't help the fact that she's your husband's ex...
it would be really strange being friends with someone I knew slept with my man...like...i don't know...i would just be weirded out. especially when it comes to talking about intimate things, I would just feel weird that she would understand what I meant in more ways than one.
but no, because if she's a good friend and you trust her, you can't help the fact that she's your husband's ex...
My husband has never left any relationships on bad terms. They (my husband and his ex) do get along. She is divorsed and has two childern from her marriage. I just think that me and her have a lot in common (inluding the fact that we both slept with the same mantln said:
!).I just get a lot of weird looks from my female friends and they all make comments like "What are you, Bruce and Demi?" and so on.
LV_addict said:My husband has never left any relationships on bad terms. They (my husband and his ex) do get along. She is divorsed and has two childern from her marriage. I just think that me and her have a lot in common (inluding the fact that we both slept with the same man
I just get a lot of weird looks from my female friends and they all make comments like "What are you, Bruce and Demi?" and so on.
Did your husband and his ex/your friend have kids together? If so, I think it's a good thing that you're friends. And if they didn't have kids together, I don't think it's weird. It'd be "weird" if you told us you were having threesomes--not that there's anything "wrong" with threesomes--but you are MARRIED to the guy....
I think it's cool that you're friends. And it's not often that we find people who's company we enjoy.
No, they didn't. I just never thought anything of it, till people started making comments. I mean, it has been 12 years since him and her even dated!wickedassin said:Did your husband and his ex/your friend have kids together? If so, I think it's a good thing that you're friends. And if they didn't have kids together, I don't think it's weird. It'd be "weird" if you told us you were having threesomes--not that there's anything "wrong" with threesomes--but you are MARRIED to the guy....
I think it's cool that you're friends. And it's not often that we find people who's company we enjoy.
It depends on many things. I personally would never be comfortable being friends with my BF's ex but then again, he never had an ex. BF and I both do have this clueless dog expression (you know, where they tilt their heads to one side like they were going huh?) when we found out that one of his college friends' fiance is best friends with his ex. We're not sure if they were friends first or not but we couldn't help thinking it's weird I guess maybe because we wouldn't want to be in that situation or something.
But no, it's not that unusual.
But no, it's not that unusual.
I agree, with the fact that it all depends on circumstance , I think thats great of you to be friends w/ her , friendship really shouldnt matter what the baggage behind it is , as long as you get along. My fiance's ex wife is the croked nosed - pointy hat wearing -green skinned -apple bearing -broom riding monster of my worst nightmares ... so your pretty lucky 
- exs can be noooo fun
- exs can be noooo fun