Im the same way. I was obsessed with spotting Chanel bags for a while because I wanted to see if it would work for me IRL.I finally decided it wuld be a going out bag for me if I ever bought one because I'm just too much af a big purse carrier.
Interesting comments about my friend.She really is a sweet person but I think she was feeling judgy because her financial situation is not what it once was due to some issues with her husband.I think its much more difficult to go from having money to not having any she is one of those who does care about name brand EVERTHING and puts some of her self worth into that. I came to luxury bags later in life when I could finally afford it but before that she would tease me about my cheap target purses. I just dont care about stuff and dont notice others enough to invest the energy. However it could also be that as someone who NOW owns several expensive handbags I'm all of a sudden privy to these conversations whereas before no one ever said anything to me about designer anything. My husband agrees shes just nosy but shes one of those dazzling personalities that can pul it off- in a Joan Rivers way if you KWIM.
Let me first say that you are a great friend! I'm sure your friend is feeling insecure and unhappy at this difficult time of her life since she puts so much emphasis on things. It's amazing how quickly people forget their behavior...she is accusing other women of flaunting yet she teased you when she could afford what you couldn't. I have friends who carry non designer bags either because they can't afford expensive ones or they just choose not to spend their money in that way...I would never even think about commenting on their bags. She seems to have a big personality, I get that...at the end of the day you get back what you put out there. My son played AAU basketball for years and attended countless camps...I never put my bags down either lol!