...that doesn't "get" your bag obsession and says mean things that actually hurt your feelings? I never forgot this, and though I do not even consider this person a friend anymore(we don't talk, and I told her to pound sand, pretty much), I still remember her rude comments. 3 or 4 years ago there was a Kate Spade paisley bag that I fell in love with instantly. It was REALLY bright and 70's looking and I HAD to have it right then. We were at the mall together and she kept telling me how ugly it was and how could it be so expensive.(it was 250ish). I bought it anyway. From then on she referred to it as "the ugly bag". She even made comments about it to our other friends. Why did I buy it, etc. I explained that it was not ugly, but not her style. Fine. She is one of those girls that won't pay more than 20 or 30 dollars for a bag and they are ALL black with white whipstiching. In other words, she doesn't use a bag as an accessory. A few years later, I had a bag I loved(croc leather in a crazy shade of beige-just gorgeous-and I got a lot of compliments on it-I even had a man comment that it must have been VERY expensive-it was) I picked her up at the airport and the first thing out of her mouth was not even hi. She said..."THAT's ugly!". I reiterated that it was "just not her style". It burned me up. I made a point to let her know a year or 2 ago when I sold the Kate Spade for more than I paid for it, that it was still a nice bag that held its value and someone else liked it. Like I said, I do not talk to her or consider her a friend anymore, as she was just too rude for me to be around, but I wonder if anything like this has happened to anyone else here?