i have a very easy to ruin, limited edition (supposedly 2 in south fla of this style and design), silk lined bag that I am SO careful with! But she is such an amazing beauty, I can't just keep her locked up. she comes out on special occasions and for the fall/winter seasons. But, use caution, care and love it to death. that's it. after the first incident of gettin a pen mark, or water droplet or whatever, you loosen up quite a bit. life goes on, you still love it, and its not 'damaged goods'. Enjoy life! and your purse should match!