I recently got my 1st Birkin at Christmas. I was thrilled to bits. But, 2 of my girlfriends have made snotty remarks like: "Do you know how many kids in Africa or other 3rd world countries could eat off the cost of that bag" "Only rich, old white woman carry those bags" (I'm African American) I was so upset. I love the bag , but I feel like when I'm with them I can't carry it. Do you every feel bad about carrying yours?