chinchillamoose said:I love spending my birthday by myself!! I've done that the past two birthdays. I get the day off work so I shop all day and have lunch at a posh restaurant by myself. I like my friends, but I got sick of trying to organize something. I have friends who are vegan or do not drink, and if people are coming out for *my* birthday, I want everyone to have fun regardless. Eating out or getting a drink as activities make me stressed out because I feel like someone might not be happy with the situation.
I feel the same way! You can hardly enjoy yourself worrying about others. I've taken to my friend's tradition as well and enjoyed a day pampering myself. Sometimes, it's nice to just be by yourself!