I notice a lot of people on the forum asking for help selecting handbags for other people, to give as gifts. Does this work for you? I find that unless someone is shopping off directly off of my wishlst, I end up hating the bags they select, and have to return them. I must be extrememly picky, b/c it can't be just any bag. Not every bag out there does it for me. People assume I love ALL bags, and I don't. I also encounter this problem when people try to buy me something related to my job: either I have it already, or it is not professional quality, or totally useless (and someone outside the industry wouldn't know the difference); or they make assumptions about lifestyle (i.e.: If you have 3 cats, they buy you things with a cat motif, if you drink a certain brand of beer, heaven forbid, they buy you some type of household decor bearing the logo). Anyone?