I don't know if I have to right to be annoyed/peeved. I started a thread a few weeks ago saying how I think I hate my boyfriends bestfriend. I think I called her... Cindy. Basically - long story short - him and her will never cross those boundaries, they are JUST FRIENDS. Well we started to have issues and she kept bad mouthing me basically and telling him he needed to find the 'right girl' when she had no concept of our relationship. We broke up for awhile and got back together. I don't want to sound snooty but I believe I am a really good girlfriend. I support him in every way and I do all that I can to make his life easier. Well when we got back together, we made it a point that we won't see each other that often because he needed to get his career up and going. This was a major stress of our relationship because he felt all this pressure to 'provide' even though I am a successful, accomplish business woman myself. Nonetheless, he felt that if he didn't buckle down and focus on his career, he may lose his chance and me in the next few years because he can't provide for me. We reconciled and both realized that it was a good idea to focus on our career but still be there to support each other. It's been hard to adjust because we work different hours. We use to see each other EVERYDAY. Now we see each other on the weekends and maybe one weekday. Yesterday he said he had to go down to the Studio. I said that was fine, he does that a lot during the week now. He said he missed me (we haven't seen each other since Saturday) and he'd be done early so he would like to swing by later on if it was possible. I said that was fine. So I assumed we 'had a plan'. I went out with my girlfriend but told her I needed to be back by 10 because I was going to see him. 10.30 came around, no calls. 11 came around, no calls. I thought maybe he was working a little later so I decided not to bother him and just go to bed. I get a texted at almost ONE!! and he said while he was wrapping up Cindy called and asked to go for Coffee, he did, and just got home. Even though he said he would probably swing by, I felt that at least he should've called before he went to meet her. but maybe i'm overeaccting.