Have you looked into the Hotel Menage? I stayed there last September with my dh and we loved it! It was trendy, cheap ($89/night), 3*, the pool area was awesome, the service was great, the bar was nice... I loved it!
www.hotelmenage.com
Edited to add: We thought it was great too because with it not being a Disney hotel it was a nice break from the craziness of Disneyland and it felt like a more grown up place to be. It's down the street from Disneyland so during the day we'd leave the park to go for a dip in the pool and a drink (the mango mojitos were amazing!). We actually watched the Disneyland fireworks from the seats in the pool because the view there was just as good as seeing them from the park. Another couple there said they thought the view was even better. Across the street was a Starbucks, gas station and a Taco Bell. The Anaheim Garden Walk was within walking distance.
Here are some pics.
Not the best, but this is the view of the fireworks: