Ok, A lady won a scarf from me I sold it NWT Never used etc.... as I was packing it up I noticed a white mark on it.. like a flaw in the silk. I had never noticed before. I went on to email her that I found this flaw and That I was sorry would she like a refund or does she still want me to send it? ok.. she email me back with... I think you knew about the flaw before, you should tell the truth, send it anyway. so, that made me mad. I emailed her back saying no, I won't send to her and I refunded her money. can I do that? I was like in the heat of pasion, I don't like it when people are rude to me.