I'm having a REALLY difficult time deciding this, simply because I am just not comfortable in my own skin. I never have been. Clearly my husband will stay with me, but my mother has been non-stop bugging me about how she wants to be there while I'm in labor, and she said she'll leave when I begin to "push" - I don't know how I'll feel the day of, but right now the whole idea of having anyone else besides nurses and my husband in the room makes me SUPER uneasy. I know for a fact I will not even be able to breastfeed in front of anyone, or especially not pump in front of anyone. I don't know why all of this freaks me out so much. But I don't know how to tell my mother I don't want her there. :/ Anyone else have this situation? What did you decide?