Well I got through this weekend thanks to my two wonderful boys, a good bout of exercise today, and a good first day of Weight Watchers... I have decided that the medium Heritage tote is going back. Now I have to figure out. Do I order a large to replace it? Buy a black Ali I found which is a pretty good deal I think (what do all of you gals think is a good deal for an Ali these days? There's a black leather and a black sig available), try to find a black hippie, or just have nothing for now and see what comes out? Input greatly appreciated.