Hmmmmm...I agree with the opinions here - elegance in jewellery is about balance, not strict rules. Whenever I see rules listed by fashion editors or designers or whoever, I always instinctively go 'feh'. Times change, styles change, tastes change. 'Rules' are inherently static. I believe in rules in mathematics and law (and even then, sometimes they change). Not in style or fashion. And people who try to insist that rules exist in fashion prove nothing more than their lack of understanding of fashion. We do not walk around the streets of cities today in powdered wigs wearing ankle-length frocks with bustles for a reason, no?
I have a beautiful diamond necklace that I purchased after many years of trying to find a pendant that I could wear every day. T&Co, VCA, Cartier - I've tried them all on. What can I say? Pendants do NOT work on me. End of sentence.
But I still wanted something. Enter a very beautiful diamond necklace - it's in the style of the T&Co Swing. Now if I wish, I can wear this necklace with a cocktail frock and modest (read: balanced) earrings and look like a dressed up lady. I can also wear this necklace with a v neck top and trousers or shift dress under a round collar jacket to work and look like a professional woman at work. Frankly, I get more wear out of the necklace for day, because at night, to dress up and lend bling to an outfit, I prefer to wear statement earrings and I would not wear a full diamond necklace with drop earrings out of deference to my lifestyle - I am not a Hollywood starlet on the red carpet!
It's interesting, but while I would love a pearl necklace (double strand south seas
) I cannot see myself wearing such a necklace until I am somewhere around 45 or 50 - because the women who I see wearing pearl necklaces like that now are typically a bit older, such as Michelle *****. I feel for myself, if I were to wear such a necklace now, it would look sort of twee and just not right
This is good though, because I will probably need at least 12 years to save for my pearl necklace
In comparison, the diamond necklace I have is quite delicate and almost 'girly'. It's not a 'power' necklace.
There are no rules. I know some days, some nights, some occasions and some outfits, my diamond necklace is completely wrong. When it's completely right, I wear it and love it