I think I am going to return my speedy mono 30 that I just got as a gift from DH and exchange for the damier ebene 30. After reading several threads it seems that the damier ebene is more durable and does not have to be babied as much as the speedy mono.....I am mostly stay at home mom and when I do work it is in a clinical environment. So I need an everyday bag that is durable....However, DH also got me a mono zippy wallet that I love...I don't want to exchange that at all.....so it will be ok to use my damier ebene speedy w/ my mono wallet right? Thanks!!!!