Okay so I'm currently in FL visiting my mom, My dad is back in Cali, and I just got the news from my brother that my dad went through my room...basicly rampaged it and found stuff in my room that pretained to me having a boyfriend! Anywho, I first heard about he knowing I had a bf, which isn't a big deal b/c whatever. But then I just found out that he went through my stuff?!?!?! I'm 20 years old, my dad has no right to dig through my :censor: . Even if he did and found something he didn't want to see, atleast know to keep it to himself. I am very serious with my boyfriend. My boyfriend mentioned more than enough times that he really doesn't want to be a secret to my dad and wanting to meet him...but I thought that I should finish my school first, then tell..which would have been in 3 weeks! My mom already met him, and everything is cool. She adores him! I met his WHOLE family already withing a week of going out with him. I'm going back to Cali Monday,and I'mg onna have to face him...I already wrote him an email, a nice one, teling him that I'm sorry if he feels that I should of told him, and that we can talk about this when I'm over there. I'm old enough to know what I want, my dad knew about my previous boyfriend...so it's not like a total SECRET. If he goes out of proportion with this, I'm going to seriously let him know that this is why I can't tell him anything. ( MY DAD ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT IF I EVER NEEDED TO ASK SOMETHING OR TELL HIM SOEMTHING, FEEL FREE TO.) Because he's impulsive and nosy.... Older people...what do you think? Am I being a typical senseless young adult?