I'm so glad I finally found this forum ... because I have so many questions!! I'm purse shopping for a vacation and want to get the best possible small, zip top cross body purse. I'm currently thinking of taking a LV Favorite, a small LV Alba in Epi, or a Gucci Soho Disco. I love the favorite, but I think it screams "steal me" because of the damier and monogram. Is the Epi a bit more low-key and incognito? Also, same thing with the Disco. So, which would you recommend for a small, with-me-every-moment-to-carry-my-important-stuff cross body? Is there another one you love that has a super secure top (zip or lock or big flap)?