Okay everyone....you're gonna love this story! I have one craazzzzy bridesmaid!!!! Well, okay, first I should explain her style....she is goth, she wears lots of black make-up, and draws things on her face and...etc... She has a crazy bf that adds to her unique style. Now I also must explain that she is not just my friend, but she is my cousin, and wasn't always like this, and we used to be such good friends, we were anyway, until this crazy boyfriend! Anyway, I don't mind her individuality, and I asked her to do her make-up in a more subtle way for the big day, and she happily agreed. In fact, she was almost in tears of joy when I asked her to be my bridesmaid. Now here's the problem!!!! Her boyfriend decided it would be a good idea that they buy eachother tattoos for Christmas. Well, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with tattoos, but she got it across her chest, right along the chest bone, and it looks like a giant necklace of stars across her chest. Very visible, and the dress is a strappless dress too!!! So, I kept calm, and told myself it would be okay because the dress comes with a shawl, and she can aways get a tattoo cover-up. But that's not it!!! Oh no!!! I just found out that a couple of weeks ago she got her CHEST PIERCED!!!!!!! It also is right against her chest bone!!!!! This is getting ridiculous!!!!! Now please keep in mind that I do not judge people on their style of dressing, or by tattoos or piercings. In fact, I applaud individuality. However, she knew that her dress was strappless and very open at the top, and that the style of our wedding was very low-key and conservative....so why couldn't she take her duty as a bridesmaid that SHE openly accepted more seriously and wait until AFTER the wedding to get all of this done!!!! She waited this long!!! Why not a little longer??? Sorry, I just had to rant.... What do you guys think???? Am I making too big of a deal out of this?