Complicated grief - how to overcome?

[baghagg]

@poulinska I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. It was time. You did all you could. It's very hard. My sweet dog has been gone 3 weeks, and it's still so surreal and sad..

 

[poulinska]

@baghagg thank you. I'm sorry for your dog.

 

[BittyMonkey]

I had to euthanize her yesterday. She had several cancer tumors and was suffering from severe pain. She couldn't walk anymore. I am so sad.

Very sorry. Please take care of yourself. You did right by her.

 

[Juda]

I had to euthanize her yesterday. She had several cancer tumors and was suffering from severe pain. She couldn't walk anymore. I am so sad.

Wish words can comfort you or I can help you in any way.
Sending you lots of love and good vibes.

 

[poulinska]

Thank you. These days it is really hard for me. I have nightmares and miss her really a lot. But i hope it will get better.

 

[Jktgal]

I love them my whole heart and then let them go to the beautiful place their beautiful souls go. I know I will see them again.

 

[Juda]

Thank you. These days it is really hard for me. I have nightmares and miss her really a lot. But i hope it will get better.

I lost 2 cats five months apart, if I wasn't numb from the 1st loss I wouldn't have been able to process the 2nd loss.
Love was replaced by grief, then grief was replaced by even more love and some sadness.
I will mourn them forever but I will love them forever as well.

 

[poulinska]

I lost 2 cats five months apart, if I wasn't numb from the 1st loss I wouldn't have been able to process the 2nd loss.
Love was replaced by grief, then grief was replaced by even more love and some sadness.
I will mourn them forever but I will love them forever as well.

Thank you. Your words helped a lot. I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose two in such a short time. Today is the first day that I feel a little better and just miss her. Wish you all a nice week.

 

[poulinska]

How long did you wait until you got a cat again - if ever? I feel a little bit better, but there is such a hole. I thought I would never want a cat again.