I love that color! But I tend to agree with you, the wrinkled leather is lightweight and more susceptible to dye transfer. Versus, say, the smooth leather Pandora.
The color on the website definitely looks darker. More like a warm caramel?
How frustrating! I have noticed that so many retailers, even the designers themselves, have inadequate photos on their websites. Seems like it would benefit them to accurately portray the products they sell - fewer returns in the end.
It's a gorgeous bag though, and even if you don't keep it, at least you can try on the size and verify if the Large Pandora is right for you...