Hi, I'm new...found the site by googling. I'm trying to decide on a first Coach bag. I went into the store and loved the mineral hobo...what a gorgeous color!, but I think it might be too big for me. Any thoughts? Do you think it would look funny on a 5'4 slender person? I was thinking of getting the Soho flap bag and mineral wristlet instead. But I'm indecisive! Thoughts?