hi all! so, i bought the carly (small size) in black...i love the shape and quality of the bag, but i wanted something a little more "funky"...so, i'm exchanging it for the camel colored one with contrasting leather color...i'm 49 and a teacher and mom and want a substantial bag that looks great...i've been VERY turned off by poor quality that i've been seeing lately in rafe (rivets flying off), ferragamo (zipper breaking after ONE week) and a KOOBA (handle broke after 2 weeks)...i've used balenciaga and marc jacobs as well and somehow i feel like i'm taking a "step down" by getting this bag (i know, it sounds like i'm a bag snob...but i'm looking for help!!!) any suggestions? do i get the camel w/ contrasting color in the large? or stay with the camel in the small? decisions, decisions... THANKS!!!!