Ok... I must apologize in advance for this long thread. Anyone have a high school sweetheart that they've always wondered about? Well... I did .. and still do. After many, many years.. (I just turned 40 to give perspective) I've been in contact with my old love. We "went steady" .. ... for almost 6 years, starting from the time I was only 14 until mid - college years. We went to different states for college and time and distance pulled us apart. Then, as time does, we each found different paths and new loves.. etc..etc.. you all know the story well I'm sure. Recently we found each other again thru the "wonderful" .. <major scarcasm> world of the internet. We are both single <I've actually never been married.. lol> and have chatted quite a bit. Anyway, he wants to see me. OMG ... Ladies please understand .. this guy, his was the ONE!! I've never stopped thinking about him. I know I sound sad and pitiful to most, but, I knew it then..and I know it now. However .. as time does .. it ages us. I know this sounds so vain, and I'm really not like that, but .. umm.. if you were me .. wouldn't you want to look just your absolute best??? So.. there isn't much I can do about the natural aging process .. and I'm quite proud of my age and how I look <nothing special..just your average USA woman> but....... BIG BUT HERE .... Is there anything you wise ladies can recommend to look especially awesome??? Not talking anything fakey ... not that I'm against it, but its just not me. Is there anything you ladies highly recommend to make yourselves look really special?? A good facial? Microderm..whatever.. lol.... I know this sounds so very juvenile .. but .. it means a lot to me. I want to look ... like myself .. but .. I want to "make him drool". <so petty I know... but I can't help it> What do you all recommend? When you want to look "make 'em wish they hadn't let you go" kinda thing?? Advise? Suggestions? Good calming drugs?? <just kidding> OMG .. I can't believe this .. I feel like a teenager about to turn in her V-card.. so silly .. I know. Help!!!