First, let me explain that I was brought up to believe that giving to charitable causes is the right thing for me to do. If I have $100, and a good charity is asking for $10, I should give them the $10 if I do not need the entire hundred. This is what I was taught, and I still believe it. I don't think anyone else has to follow this code and I don't judge people who don't give to charity. I don't know their lives, and it's not my business how others spend their own money.
Lately, I am getting sick of charities asking me for money. The simple requests don't bother me as much, but when they send me a calendar, stationery, address labels or whatever, I get annoyed at the waste. I have no use for more calendars and I have more than enough address labels from one of my favorite charities, so I'm good. I have learned that I have to open all of those envelopes instead of shredding them directly from the mailbox, after almost killing my shredder with a nickel that some charity had glued to their 'give us money' form. For at least a week now, I have been receiving daily requests for contributions from different charities, some that I've never even heard of, and yesterday I received three. I am not opposed to learning about new charities, but I feel like lately I'm just getting inundated with requests.
I guess this was just a rant, and I apologize for the length of the post, but can anyone else relate to this? This may be getting to me a little more than usual because my husband and I just had to pay a pretty horrific mechanic's bill and I'm not feeling very generous at the moment. I love to give and I feel bad, but I am just not going to send cash to everyone who asks me to donate, and I'm sick of the amount of paper I'm shredding or just tossing directly into the recycling bin. I don't know where these requests are coming from. Is my name on some kind of list or something? ush:
Lately, I am getting sick of charities asking me for money. The simple requests don't bother me as much, but when they send me a calendar, stationery, address labels or whatever, I get annoyed at the waste. I have no use for more calendars and I have more than enough address labels from one of my favorite charities, so I'm good. I have learned that I have to open all of those envelopes instead of shredding them directly from the mailbox, after almost killing my shredder with a nickel that some charity had glued to their 'give us money' form. For at least a week now, I have been receiving daily requests for contributions from different charities, some that I've never even heard of, and yesterday I received three. I am not opposed to learning about new charities, but I feel like lately I'm just getting inundated with requests.
I guess this was just a rant, and I apologize for the length of the post, but can anyone else relate to this? This may be getting to me a little more than usual because my husband and I just had to pay a pretty horrific mechanic's bill and I'm not feeling very generous at the moment. I love to give and I feel bad, but I am just not going to send cash to everyone who asks me to donate, and I'm sick of the amount of paper I'm shredding or just tossing directly into the recycling bin. I don't know where these requests are coming from. Is my name on some kind of list or something? ush: