Hey Sweetea. No problem. I know that it's hard to pick the bag that you love the most... From what you've said, you don't love the Kelly as much as the Birkin -- so maybe you really won't want a Kelly, even though many people on the forum would want one themselves and are recommending the Kelly to you. I agree with addicted, that it's your bag and you are the one who will be carrying it. Don't worry about going against the flow. The python would be great on you. Also, the chanel would be lovely. Just close your eyes and imagine the one that will suit you the most, that is most like your own personality and that you would most love carrying!
I know it's so hard to decide, Sweetea. Best of luck!