I have it. My life style is quite casual. I wear the mini love hoop/studs most of the time, and wear the large hoop for more “special” occasion, date night, meeting new friends/visitors etc. I don’t wear the large hoop a lot, but absolutely love it and no regret. It serves my purpose really well. As to the weight, it is relatively heavy, but doesn’t bother me at all after 8 hours’ wear