My sister's DH and my DH hate each other. I'm not to fond of her DH myself, but she and I don't get to be very close anymore because of it, and it is starting to make me very sad. They got along fine until my hubby started to voice his opinion about the way her husband treated her. It's not like he treats her very badly or anything, but I see what my husband means when he thinks her DH doesn't know much about her interests or likes. Long story short, my DH made some comments to the effect that he didn't think they would have a very happy marriage if he didn't start taking an interest in her hobbies and desires and such. It pretty much started a feud, and now they won't be around each other. I don't mind leaving hubby at home to go see her, but she is almost never without him, and I therefore am very uncomfortable when I visit them. It's been so long since we have got to hang out and be sisterly that I am starting to get quite sad about it. I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know any way to politely say "I don't like your husband". What should I do? I miss her.