A few friends and I get our hair done together and my one friend seems to get this old lady bowling ball style. It just ages her. She thinks it is wonderful and hot. The guy who cuts hair is talented and does great work but she seems to be stuck in this rut of a style that reminds me of my mother's hair. I think she would be very insulted if anyone said something to her. It just seems like she needs that extra inch cut off for a more edgier style. She lost over 50 lbs and looks great and I don't think she realizes how good she looks. She still dresses to cover up her body and I always tell her "hello" there is a body under there waiting to get out. I am not making fun of her in any way, it is just that she looks 15 years older than she is. I guess some people are afraid to do anything different and even when I show her pictures she says she could never wear that. When in the past people mistake you for your husbands mother maybe one would want a younger style.